How to get rid of a stalker ex girlfriend

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At some point in your life, youre most likely going to be trying to get out of a bad relationship and will be wondering how to get ride of a jealous ex girlfriend. Dumping an ex is the easy part, but keeping her out of life may prove to be much more difficult, at least, without the help of a restraining order. There are a few crucial things you can do though to get rid of a jealous ex girlfriend.

The first thing you should do to get rid of a jealous ex girlfriend is to let her know that youre done with the relationship. If shes an unreasonable and dramatic type, remain calm during the conversation but let her know that youre serious and be quite firm in your talk with her. Tell her that you want her to stay away from you or any of your future relationships. Dont be swayed by tears or threats.

Inform your friends that you have a jealous ex girlfriend who might try to get to you through them. Ask for their support in ignoring her requests for information about you and your future relationships.

A jealous ex girlfriend will most likely try to break into your email or voicemail. You next step in curtailing the relationship should be to immediately change all of your passwords. While youre at it, make you passwords very difficult to break by using at least one upper case, one lower case, one number and one symbol in every password.

Changing your routine will make it more difficult for a jealous ex girlfriend to follow you throughout your day. You might not be able to change your work pattern, but find new places to hang out, especially if youre planning on taking a new date along.

If worse comes to worse and youre being stalked by a jealous ex girlfriend, you might have to ask for support from the police. Consider getting a restraining order which might at least slow her approach to you. Warn her beforehand that youre going to take this step and, if she continues her stalking behavior, make good on the threat and get the restraining order.

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How to handle an ex girlfriend

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I came here wanting an opinion of maybe some people that have been in my shoes. I dont think my friends understand the situation and have really done a great job just making me move along, but they dont feel what I feel.

Here it is.... I worked with a girl when I was a Sophomore in College and she was a Senior in High School. We knew each other since she was 16 and never really thought about dating at all since she was very young. As time progressed and she got older... I got to know her really well. We went on a trip together as friends with no plans and we really hit it off. Long story short, we spent a lot of time together over the summer before she left to go to college out of state and we decided there was a bond and we would try to make this thing work long distance

Lets cut to the chase, the relationship was great.. GOOD COMMUNICATION the whole time, I was really close to her family and would eat dinner over there even without her. My parents treated her so well and they would even text her once in awhile. it was great besides the distance. We made it work, we would see eachother every month 1/2 around and we stayed positive knowing at one point we would be together. We never fought and we had a TON of trust. 2 years went by like this with no problem.

THEN... she moved in with 7 other people and I trusted her but they became the "party house." She never really had a period of time to let loose i guess and party it up. She stayed at my house for a month this past summer and i think the commitment scared her off. She met some guy she had feelings for, told me about it and was very open. She didnt cheat, she explained she felt weird and for the first time she didnt run off when someone hit on her like she usually would. It got her so confused and crazy and eventually I ended it. It was hard on both of us... this was in Sept.

Now, November rolls around and she notices I am with another girl. I am sure she got jealous, maybe thought I would wait around while she figured stuff out... but i didnt. I moved along... I kept communication open with her and said now is not the time. She still is in school for another yr and a half. She writes me a letter saying how she made a mistake, she loves me, im the one she wants to marry etc. I sent her a text saying I will take it to heart. She then writes something like, "I meant every word, I dont know whats wrong with me." I then flew to her state to see a mutual friend and she found out and sent me a text saying it was weird i was in her state and I didnt tell her so obviously I dont want to see her. She said she is going to stop contacting me now for now on and I should enjoy my stay.


Look, I still love her to death, i know deep down she is the one but maybe got blinded like i said with some influences from her friends. I did not respond to her last 2 texts out of respect to my new partner (we are not official but we act like it as of right now). Things are good, but i also feel bad not texting her back. She basically left me for another man and states she loves me still and all this stuff but then doesnt act on it. I even told her if it was me in her situation, I would have been at her door asking to talk.... nothing. I told her last time we spoke on the phone that we need to support eachother and i forgive her for what she did but dont know if I could forget. I love her and her family so much but I just feel like she might be playing games and not even knowing it. I feel she shouldnt want to see me and should put that effort into her new man that she chose to have relations with. I just want to shake her and guide her but I know I can not be the one to do that. How should I approach this with her contact. She says she doesnt want to contact me again but I know she will. Is she just young? Not contacting her the best thing?

Please help guys and girls!

Thanks

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How to hook up with your ex girlfriend

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With Christmas right around the corner, everyones getting a little busy with shopping and travel plans. And many of us will soon be getting a little busy with ex-girlfriends back home.
Hooking up with an ex over the holidays is a winter tradition that almost everyone shares at some point. Maybe youve already sent friendly text messages to gauge your chances. (For example, "Youre not married now, right?") However, its not always the best idea. Well give you the pros and cons of nostalgic nookie with your hometown hottie.

PROS

 

1. You Already Know Each Other

 

Hooking up with someone new is exciting, but it takes so much effort: introducing yourself, coming across smoothly, finding a graceful exit if shes into something super weird. With your ex, though, youre in familiar territory. You know what she likes, she knows what you like. Its not the thrill of the unknown, but youll probably have an okay time.

2. The (Sexy) Ghost of Christmas Future

 

If you and your ex are fine with hooking up over the holidays, theres a chance it can happen again next December, and the December after that. Plus, itll make visiting for a wedding or a reunion or (hopefully not) a funeral slightly more exciting.

3. What Else Are You Gonna Do?

 

After a while, sitting on your parents couch and watching their HBO can get boring. You remember that you left this town for a reason: Theres just nothing going on. At least hooking up with your ex will give you something to do if youve already seen "The Hobbit."

CONS

 

1. Fighting Where You Left Off

 

You broke up with your ex for a reason, and that reason might become very apparent after a few drinks. You could wind up arguing about something that happened two years ago as if it happened yesterday. Instead of hooking up, the night ends with you refusing to apologize for that time you got drunk at her sisters wedding and got in a fight with the DJ.

2. You Risk Getting Re-Attached

 

Its always a bad idea to hook up with your ex if one of you still has feelings for the other. If shes not over the relationship (and you are), just go for someone else. If youre not over the relationship (and she is), youll just prolong the time it takes to move on.

3. Been There, Done That

 

With an ex, youre regressing. Youre trying to recapture whats already gone. And besides, you might be missing out on someone new. Try your luck with the girl from high school you always had a crush on back when you were too shy to even say hello. Who knows, maybe she felt the same way. Why not give it a shot?

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