Using reverse psychology in your relationships

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Before you can put reverse psychology into practice, you first have to understand what it actually is. If used incorrectly it simply wont work, or could end up making a situation worse.

Simply put, reverse psychology is the mind-bending technique of giving somebody the impression you want a particular outcome, when in fact you want the opposite.

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Keeping no contact when children are involved

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With children involved, the No Contact Rule is hard to follow...

Ive heard your story before: You want to get back with your ex and youve read everywhere that one of the rules you need to follow to reignite that spark in his or her heart is to start giving them the cold shoulder and avoid all contact after the breakup. Its called the No Contact Rule.

While this can be effective, its hard to practice when there are children involved. So how do you maintain no contact with your ex if you have a child together?

Well obviously, you cant really do that.

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Getting back together after a mutual breakup

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Is it a good idea to try to get your ex back after a mutual breakup?

...The voices of friends and family can complicate the situation. If your ex was very close to your family theyll have plenty to say once you tell them you broke up. How could you let this happen? Why? And when you tell them it was partly your decision, theyll blame you for the loss of someone theyd come to think of as a family member.

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How To Win Your Ex Back Using Simple Reverse Psychology

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Figuring out how to win your ex back using reverse psychology might sound complicated, but it really isnt.  All it means is using some straightforward methods that are designed to get your ex to sit up and take notice of you instead of ignoring you.

Your first step towards how to win and get your ex back involves you determining to make no contact with them. That means no texting, no calling and definitely no trying to see them.  This might seem counter-intuitive to your ultimate goal, but look at it this way: if you stop calling your ex, especially when theyve made it clear that they dont want to be contacted, then you appear calm, mature and in control of yourself.  Once your ex begins to see you this way you are immediately more appealing than the desperate person you were who was bombarding them with calls.

Furthermore, this simple reverse psychology means that once you have stopped trying to make contact with your ex, then immediately your ex begins to wonder just what youre up to.  They start wondering why youre not pursuing them and just like that youre on your spouses mind and youre in their thoughts, which is just where you want to be.

Your next psychological move when youre trying to figure out how to win your ex back is to get out and about and have some fun.  This is going to be another tough undertaking, but it beats staying home night after night on your own struggling to stop yourself from contacting your ex and thinking about them.  So force yourself out there and make some new friends or hook up with old friends. 

Youve stopped calling them and youre out and about enjoying yourself.  Once word gets back to your ex, theyll be surprised at how well youre coping.  They might even be jealous because it appears, you dont have time for your ex and its basic human nature to want that which is scarce and thats exactly what you will become.  Just like that, youve become someone who is desired and not someone to be avoided.

Taking the steps towards understanding how to win and get your ex back really means looking after yourself first and foremost.  When you concentrate on your own requirements first and foremost, without obsessing about what your ex wants and what you should do to please them, then you inadvertently find yourself using these simple forms of reverse psychology without even realizing it.  So you see, it is not a complicated process and you will find that your ex will respond to you in a more open and amenable way.

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I Dumped Girlfriend And I Want Her Back

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If you dumped girlfriend and you want her back, then youre going to have to move fast but not so fast that you make the classic mistakes that guys make when theyre trying desperately to get back with their exs.
If you want to get her back then I bet youve been sending her expensive gifts, trying desperately to get her attention and prove something to her about how you feel.  Chances are none of that has worked, because to be honest its pretty old hat and your girlfriend wants to see something more honest and much more innovative from you.
A dumped girlfriend is likely out to make you jump through a few hoops before she takes you back, even if she desperately wants you back.  And if you did dump her, its going to be hard to argue against her feeling that way.
Youve without a doubt greatly hurt her feelings and her pride and shes going to exact some revenge for that.  Depending on how desperate you are to get her back will tell you the level to which youll be prepared to put up with what she throws at you.
If she needs you to explain what you did and why you did it, then you better take some time to figure it out in your own head and be sincere when you sit down to explain it to her.
If she needs an apology from you and a sound promise from you that you will never do it again, then youre going to have to do that.
Maybe you panicked as you saw the relationship deepening and getting more and more serious.  Its a pretty common feature for some guys and to suddenly feel as they are feeling smothered and overwhelmed in a relationship and instead of sitting down with their girlfriends, they panic.  Before you know it, they have a dumped girlfriend and theyre living with regret.  So perhaps this is the situation that you have to explain to your ex girlfriend.  If it is, again, be honest.
What you must guard against in a situation where you were clearly in the wrong and you over reacted, is that you dont become her punching bag.  Dont allow her to use you as an emotional vessel into which she pours out all her frustrations and anger just because she can.  So doormat out, understanding and apologetic guy in!
Chances are if the two of you still have feelings for each other, you will get her back after you dumped girlfriend, but you have to be clear that youre happy to try again and not simply reacting to feeling bad about the way you treated her.

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