How to make your ex girlfriend jealous

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If you’re in the frame of mind where you want to make your ex girlfriend jealous I’m going to take a guess that your relationship ended and not in the way that you wanted? There are two possibilities here of course and the first of these is that you broke up with your girlfriend, changed your mind and now she doesn’t want you back.

Or the other possibility is that your girlfriend has broken up with you and you’re trying to make her jealous so that she’ll come running back to you?

Using jealousy as a weapon is a form of emotional blackmail when you really break it down and any future relationship that has a basis in jealousy stands as much chance of long-term success as any relationship that was built on a foundation of cheating and infidelity.

Basically you cannot build something positive out of something negative and jealousy is one of the most negative things in the entire world – for some people it even goes as far as being a sin.

What you really want to achieve here is that your ex girlfriend will start paying attention to the fact that you still exist and want to spend time with you again and believe me making her jealous isn’t going to do you any good. Why? Well because the method that most guys choose to do this is dating another girl and while this can and probably will make your ex jealous to some extent it will also probably just make her think you’re a “man-ho” and what little respect she had for you is probably now gone.

You see the advice you get off guy friends is to go and sleep with other girls straight away and let your ex know about it on Facebook or Twitter. There are two problems here and the first is that this type of advice is usually given by single guys who can’t form a long-term relationship with a woman – never trust a bald barber as they say. Secondly you’re just giving your ex girlfriend more reasons to not want to have anything to do with you ever again.

It’s also worth remembering that having a jealous ex girlfriend that’s mad at you is about the worst enemy you can have in the world. What kind of personal information does she know about you that she could make public? She probably knows more about you than you could ever guess so don’t go waving a red rag in front of that bull ok buddy?

If you really want to get your ex girlfriend back then the quickest way to achieve that is by not acting like a 16-year old boy. Instead of trying to make her jealous why not call her up for a chat, invite her out to lunch, apologize for anything you’ve done wrong and basically just show her that you’re a stand-up guy and that you’re capable of changing because you love her that much.

That will go a lot, lot, lot further than using some childish mind games or flirting with other girls in front of her hoping to make her fall madly in love with you again.

Your ex girlfriend wants a man and not a boy so why not be the man she expects you to be?

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How to know if your ex girlfriend wants you back

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Have you recently broken up with your girlfriend and trying to win her back? Do you still find it difficult accepting that she is gone? Is it still difficult for you believing that this was someone who not too long ago, couldn’t just live without you but today seems doesn’t even give a hoot about your existence? Are you contemplating trying to win her back or lacking the courage and or knowledge to get her back?

Fortunately, you should realize that the chances of your getting her back are alive and well. That is, if she is in any way displaying any of the following signs which generally indicate that she still have an interest in getting back together with you. All you need to do is to be tactful in how you handle the situation as you attempt winning her back for good.

1. Constantly tries to keep in touch

Is she always calling you, texting or emailing you to check on how you are doing? While at the surface it might seem normal for her to want know how you are doing, you should be able to tell when she wants to keep you in her daily life. If she was really over you, she wouldn’t be that bothered.

Things are this point can get a little tricky, because if you allow the situation to persist, you may from being a temporary ex boyfriend become her permanent friend, a situation you really don’t want to get into. So while not ignoring her altogether which you really can’t afford to do, you should keep a healthy distance.

2. Becomes jealous at the mention of other girls

It is a good sign of her lingering interest in you if your ex girlfriend reacts to certain things you do or say. Of particular interest here is she often gets jealous whenever you unintentionally talk about other girls. The later indicates that she is not fully ready to let go of you yet even when she apparently appears not wanting to take you back. She still believes that you “belong” to her to a certain degree.

As a caution, try and appreciate the fact that she still has feelings for you which present an opportunity for you to get back into her life, rather than abusing the privilege and purposely trying to get her to become jealous. Remember that she still has the upper hand and that you are not yet emotional strong enough to start playing mind games with her.

3. Tries to make you feel jealous

As if her getting jealous is not enough, a sure sign that you are well on target to getting her back will be if see seem to be trying to make you feel jealous by equally mentioning other guys. However, most guys at this stage might wrongly interpret this as a sign that she might have moved on.

You need to really study her body language at this stage more so if she has shown any previous sign of jealousy as aforementioned. You must remain calm and calculated, as this will make her to try harder in getting you to react thus disarming her.

4. Excessive flirting and unbecoming conduct

This is a simple sign that there is still some element of attraction between you and her. While these signs might seem like an open invitation to get back into the relationship, it is however better to give her some space.

While the attraction still appears to be there it is not enough to keep her, let her come to her own conclusion on your ability to give her what she wants. If you jump in too early, you risk blowing it all away.

5. Keeps “Loose Ends”

How much of her stuffs are still in your apartment? Why does she keep dropping by every now and then to pick up one thing or the other? Simple, by leaving some of her stuff in your place, she has an open invitation to come to your place on a regular basis. Your ex girlfriend is simply not ready to let go of you yet.

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How to make an ex girlfriend want you back

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There are some moments in life when the perfect relationships face break-ups. The guy and the girl, either both or anyone of them could be responsible for this. When they get separated for some time, they realize that they cannot live without each other. At this point you will definitely want you ex-girlfriend back in your life but how to make ex-girlfriend want you back? This is the real problem and you cannot force her to accept you again. But this can be done in a simple way if you know what a woman wants from a man. This actually varies from woman to woman and also depends on some other factors like her personality and how you have treated her before. You have to study her personality and know her preferences.


A woman can be very choosy while picking her ideal. She might have made a list of qualities she wants to see in her ideal and before fulfilling those requirements she might not allow anyone to have a chance with her. However she can compromise some of the points if she sees something even better in a man and hopes that things will go perfect in the future. What a woman wants might sound simple but it is very hard to believe. You can make ex-girlfriend want you back if you know how to make her happy. Women are far more sensitive than men so doing small things can make a lot difference. Listening carefully what she says, coming home and cooking delicious food rather than asking her “what’s in dinner” when entering the door, giving her a hug at times, all these are heart wining actions.

Women are attracted to such men who take care of themselves and have confidence in themselves. Such men attract the women just like a flame attracts the moth. You need to improve this “X” factor in your character. A woman wants safety and security. She wants the assurance that you will be there for help whenever she needs you. This type of assurance has nothing to do with material things like money. This simply means that she feels taken care of while you are around. Most of the women prefer a balance and order in their life. This means the existence of a routine in place. A woman is a natural caretaker at heart and cares about everyone. When she cares for someone special, she will do anything to show it. To make her glad to continue doing things for you, give her the feeling of appreciation. If you don’t appreciate her, she will consider herself taken for granted and will stop doing extra efforts.

Love is the most powerful thing among all but you has to express it verbally or by your actions. You have to ensure her that you care for her as much as she cares for you. A man is very hard to read so don’t assume that she must have known the feelings of your heart. Take care of these few things and you can be a man that your ex-girlfriend will want back again.

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